When I was younger my grandma gave
us two options: either follow her and my aunt out in the country to fish or
berry pick or stay home and do household chores. Usually I chose to go fishing
or berry picking. I liked going places with my grandma because she always
packed good snacks: soda, candy bars, dried fish, Pilot Bread crackers with
cheese, cookies, and chips. These were snacks that we weren’t accustomed to
having on a daily basis.
We spent hours upon hours berry
picking. I don’t know how she and my aunt, Jolene did it. My back ached after
about an hour and my little legs got tired of walking over stumps in the
tundra. Sometimes I would accidentally trip while walking on the tundra and my
berry bucket would spill. This only meant I had to fill it back up with fresh
berries. I had to learn to walk carefully on the tundra so I didn’t make myself
have more work.
My aunt would tell us that we were
not going home until our berry buckets were full. Sometimes my aunt would bribe us to fill our buckets by saying that the first to fill their bucket would get $5. Compared to their 5-gallon
buckets, our quart-sized buckets seem tiny now, but as a kid they took forever
to fill. I guess it didn’t help that I would stop picking every so often and
snack on my sweet berries. But, hey! They were so delicious: so sweet and juicy
and fresh. Wild Blueberries and salmonberries are some of the best berries on
Earth. They beat store bought berries hands-down.
After we got done berry picking, we
went home and my grandma would pour my berries into Ziploc bags and we would hop onto the Honda and bring berries to elderly ladies who could not go out and pick themselves. Some of the elderly ladies
would give me knitted socks or mittens in exchange for my berries. I didn’t
realize until I got older how I got the better end of the deal. Knitted
clothing is something to be cherished especially when made by an elder. I wish
I knew where my homemade gifts were today as some of the ladies are no longer
with us.
My grandma is 78-years-old and she
still participates in subsistence activities. Each
time she does, she thinks of elders who cannot go out and subsist and she
shares what she has with them. Even when her ankles swell or stomach hurts.
Even with health problems, (kidney failure and heart issues) she does her best
to provide for her family and immobile elders in our community. I believe she
is the hardest working woman that I will ever know in my lifetime. She deserves
to be Elder of the Year every year.
I am so grateful that my grandma
and aunt taught me traditional values. These values are important to pass on to
our next generations because they are what make our community special. I am
very fortunate to have her as my grandma. She will always have a place in my
heart.
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